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6 Ways to be More Confident

Are you one of those people who admire naturally confident individuals?

Self-assured people are undeniably praiseworthy. The fact that they are comfortable in their own skin makes them stand out from the rest. It seems that they have whatever it takes to conquer life’s uncertainties and challenges.

These individuals, however, are not born with unbreakable self-esteem. They just work hard to build it. Keep in mind that confidence is something that you learn and develop over time.

Here are 6 things you can do to start feeling good about yourself.


1. Improve your body language and image.


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Confidence can be seen from the way you walk, talk, and appear. Maintain a good posture when walking, standing, and sitting. Talk slowly and clearly when communicating with other people. Make sure that your uniform is neatly pressed when going to school. By doing these things, you allow yourself to be confident when it comes to your looks and actions. Undoubtedly, you have to look good in order to feel good.


2. Learn to say "No". 


If you are unsure about something because you know deep inside your heart that you are not thrilled about a certain idea, then say "no". And do not be afraid to ask for what you want. At the end of the day, you are the only one who can fully control your life. Self-empowerment is all about knowing what you want for yourself and well-being. Always remember, confidence comes from living your life the way you want it.


3. Be prepared.


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In order to be confident, you have to prepare. If you have an upcoming presentation, take time to research and study your topic. If you know what you are saying and doing, your confidence can be seen and felt by your classmates. Preparation is the key to success.


4. Set goals.


Know what you want to achieve in life. Do you want to ace your Math exam? Study smart! Set short and long-term goals, and accomplish them one at a time. When you successfully attain a specific objective, it will likewise boost your confidence in your own skills and abilities.


5. Control and overcome your fears.


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Having a specific fear is completely normal, but you need to learn how to control it. Push your limits! Do the things that you are afraid of in order to gain confidence. After all, bravery is all about pursuing the things you think you cannot do. Are you afraid of heights? It is time for you to conquer it! Let your fears motivate you to become the best version of yourself.


6. Pick yourself back up when things get tough.

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Even if it is hard at first, try your best to always look on the brighter side of life. If you are having a bad day, think about the small and big things that you should be grateful for. Meanwhile, if you are dealing with rejections and criticisms, do not let them stop you from achieving your goals and aspirations. Being turned down is inevitable that is why you have to use every refusal and failure as an opportunity for you to rise above. Keep in mind that difficulties are part of life that is why you have to train your mind and heart to be stronger than the challenges you are facing. Use the setbacks to prepare yourself for a comeback.


Final Thoughts

Self-confidence begins on how you view yourself. You have to believe that you can do and be anything because there are no limits on what you can achieve. In order to be someone who entices and inspires people, you have to get rid of the negative thoughts in your head. Start embracing your strengths while working on your shortcomings. Let your individuality shine!